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    How to spot red flags early: Lessons from a 5-month relationship.

    It’s not how long you’ve been with someone; it’s about how clearly you are willing to see them.  Have you been in a relationship that felt strange? One that had you on guard? A relationship that felt so wrong and you couldn’t quite put a finger on what it was? Well, I can relate with you.   My dream is to create a safe community for women’s voice to be heard. There’s one caveat, I will not be politically correct.  Relationships can be complicated, so I chose to take a break from dating to focus on myself. I wanted to better understand my needs and what I won’t compromise on.…

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    How to value yourself as a woman.

    Image by Duckleap Free Resources from Pixabay How to value yourself as a woman is a thought we all face in a world that mostly drains and destroys. “Love your neighbor as yourself.” It’s a verse I’ve known since childhood, growing up in a Christian home. I memorized it easily, as many children do—but somewhere along the way, I put all my energy into the second part: loving others, while quietly ignoring the first: loving myself. As I’ve grown, experience has become my teacher. And one thing it has taught me is this: loving yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. That lack of assertiveness and constantly minimizing your needs to accommodate others…