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From Striving to Rest: His Strength in Our Weakness
Some mornings, I wake up feeling like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. I’ve spent so much time striving, pushing, and trying to prove I’ve got it all under control. But God’s Word reminds me that true strength isn’t found in what I can do—it’s found in surrender. His strength is made perfect in our weakness. Waking Up in His Presence This morning, I woke up well-rested, still basking in the worship atmosphere of the night before. Recently, I started rereading the Bible, holding on to God’s promise: “If you seek Me, you will find Me.” Scripture also reminds us that “we do not receive because we…
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How to Create a Support System When You Feel Alone.
Photo by Thirdman on Pexels. We all need someone to share life with—a confidant, a trusted friend, or even a sisterhood. Recently, while watching an anime, I came across a scene that deeply resonated with me. The main character, diagnosed with a fatal pancreatic illness, decides to live her last days on her own terms. She befriends a boy in her class who is a social reject. One day, during a hospital visit, he asks her what the meaning of life is to her. She answers: “It’s to connect with other humans. Because how else will you feel alive?” That line stuck with me. On a subconscious level, I understood it.…
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Why taking personal responsibility is the ultimate form of self-care.
Image by KamranAydinov on Freepik. Life comes with challenges, and everyone carries their own burdens. While mutual support is ideal, most times we must take full responsibility for ourselves. Why does taking responsibility matter? On a Macro Level Responsibility is the foundation of human survival. From the beginning, we were given dominion over the earth—managing life, land, and sea. In advanced societies, duty creates diverse opportunities where even the marginalized can contribute meaningfully. The beauty of empowerment lies in a society that values and nurtures the potential of every individual, creating a ripple effect that uplifts both individuals and the community as a whole. As a result, we have systems, amenities, and structures that support our needs. On an…
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How to spot red flags early: Lessons from a 5-month relationship.
It’s not how long you’ve been with someone; it’s about how clearly you are willing to see them. Have you been in a relationship that felt strange? One that had you on guard? A relationship that felt so wrong and you couldn’t quite put a finger on what it was? Well, I can relate with you. My dream is to create a safe community for women’s voice to be heard. There’s one caveat, I will not be politically correct. Relationships can be complicated, so I chose to take a break from dating to focus on myself. I wanted to better understand my needs and what I won’t compromise on.…
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How to Find Your Life’s Purpose: 10 Reflections.
Lately, I have felt a deep sense of purpose and direction. This shift came after I decided to start this blog. I had an earlier blog, but it didn’t last long—it didn’t evoke strong emotions within me. Now, I feel a profound emotional connection to this space, and it drives me to share more meaningfully. Understanding Your Calling If you have a fulfilling job that aligns with your interests and goals, that’s wonderful. But for many of us, work can be draining, or we take certain jobs because they are the best option at the time. Can you relate? Do you hear a small voice inside urging you to explore…




