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Dear Solo Mama: Knowing your Identity in Christ.
Let This Be Your Gentle Nudge Back to Wholeness and Hope. Many times I have come across messages both offline and online that disparage, exile and belittle mothers especially single mothers. A message with a target to destroy and taint and to dismiss any attempts at knowing your worth and identity in Christ as a single mother. Today, you get to find out that your identity in Christ is still intact. I’m a woman who’s navigated cultures, questioned systems, and learned—often the hard way—that identity rooted in God is the only thing that never shifts. I’ve worked abroad, lived away from family, and wrestled with human ways and dogmatic religious…
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🌸 Mindset shifts to reclaim your femininity.
Image by Vlada Karpovich Pexels. Tired of being told to shrink, silence your emotions, or harden up?Do you wonder how you can reclaim your femininity? In a culture that favors conformity, mutes softness, and centers male-coded norms—especially in workplaces—choosing to remain womanly, elegant, and poised can feel almost criminal. Your radiance, and polish can irritate others. Your refusal to shrink can cause discomfort. But here’s the truth: softness is not a flaw—it’s your power. You can unlearn toxic conditioning, honor your femininity, and rise with sacred strength. A Reflection on the Challenges Women Face Before we reclaim, we must first recognize. The first step in healing is naming the forces that have worked…
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God Centered Female Friendship That Heals and Elevates
Finding Soul-Nourishing Sisterhood as a Solo Mama A God centered female friendship that nourishes is the ideal we would all want. But many of our friendships with other women are unfortunately marred by undertones of tension, misalignment, jealousy, fakeness, cattiness, gossip, pity parties, enabling, or even celebrating poor choices.Yet, we know how deeply valuable female friendships can be. We instinctively seek them out—not only for companionship but also for emotional safety. There’s a natural trust in confiding in another woman, especially when we’ve learned that some male friendships eventually shift into attraction, blurring boundaries and disrupting the original dynamic. Women understand our inner worlds. They mirror our joys, our battles,…
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How to spot red flags early: Lessons from a 5-month relationship.
It’s not how long you’ve been with someone; it’s about how clearly you are willing to see them. Have you been in a relationship that felt strange? One that had you on guard? A relationship that felt so wrong and you couldn’t quite put a finger on what it was? Well, I can relate with you. My dream is to create a safe community for women’s voice to be heard. There’s one caveat, I will not be politically correct. Relationships can be complicated, so I chose to take a break from dating to focus on myself. I wanted to better understand my needs and what I won’t compromise on.…

