DEAR SOLO MAMA

HEARTFELT LETTERS TO YOU 💌
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I Was Here: The Call to Purpose, Passion, and Leaving Your Mark
Carvings on Desks and the Legacy We Leave Behind When we were young and in school, we would often come across carvings etched on wooden desks, chairs, long-dried concrete, or even on trees. They always followed a simple format: Name.… Continue reading
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A Tribute to Resilient and Feminine Women: Breaking Free and Thriving
Image by freepik on Freepik A Mother’s Influence Long after my marriage ended—when I was well past the grief stage and onto acceptance—my African mom playfully teased me. She said that my ex went out hunting for a girl and… Continue reading
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How to Create a Support System When You Feel Alone.
Photo by Thirdman on Pexels. We all need someone to share life with—a confidant, a trusted friend, or even a sisterhood. Recently, while watching an anime, I came across a scene that deeply resonated with me. The main character, diagnosed… Continue reading
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Why taking personal responsibility is the ultimate form of self-care.
Image by KamranAydinov on Freepik. Life comes with challenges, and everyone carries their own burdens. While mutual support is ideal, most times we must take full responsibility for ourselves. Why does taking responsibility matter? On a Macro Level Responsibility is… Continue reading
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How to spot red flags early: Lessons from a 5-month relationship.
It’s not how long you’ve been with someone; it’s about how clearly you are willing to see them. Have you been in a relationship that felt strange? One that had you on guard? A relationship that felt so wrong and… Continue reading
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Overcoming Life’s Challenges with Firmness
Image by Rosy / Bad Homburg / Germany from Pixabay In this life, you will experience trouble…. John 16:33 I’m working through my faith and its application in my life. Like everyone else, I’m imperfect. As far as I know,… Continue reading
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How to Find Your Life’s Purpose: 10 Reflections.
Lately, I have felt a deep sense of purpose and direction. This shift came after I decided to start this blog. I had an earlier blog, but it didn’t last long—it didn’t evoke strong emotions within me. Now, I feel… Continue reading
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3 Essential Self-Care Tips for Mothers.
Life can be tough, and some days it’s hard to feel at peace. Trends are always changing, and so are beauty standards and others’ opinions. You face new challenges while trying to maintain order around you. Being a mother has… Continue reading
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How to value yourself as a woman.
Image by Duckleap Free Resources from Pixabay How to value yourself as a woman is a thought we all face in a world that mostly drains and destroys. “Love your neighbor as yourself.” It’s a verse I’ve known since childhood,… Continue reading






