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Dear Solo Mama: Knowing your Identity in Christ.
Let This Be Your Gentle Nudge Back to Wholeness and Hope. Many times I have come across messages both offline and online that disparage, exile and belittle mothers especially single mothers. A message with a target to destroy and taint and to dismiss any attempts at knowing your worth and identity in Christ as a single mother. Today, you get to find out that your identity in Christ is still intact. I’m a woman who’s navigated cultures, questioned systems, and learned—often the hard way—that identity rooted in God is the only thing that never shifts. I’ve worked abroad, lived away from family, and wrestled with human ways and dogmatic religious…
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🌸 Mindset shifts to reclaim your femininity.
Image by Vlada Karpovich Pexels. Tired of being told to shrink, silence your emotions, or harden up?Do you wonder how you can reclaim your femininity? In a culture that favors conformity, mutes softness, and centers male-coded norms—especially in workplaces—choosing to remain womanly, elegant, and poised can feel almost criminal. Your radiance, and polish can irritate others. Your refusal to shrink can cause discomfort. But here’s the truth: softness is not a flaw—it’s your power. You can unlearn toxic conditioning, honor your femininity, and rise with sacred strength. A Reflection on the Challenges Women Face Before we reclaim, we must first recognize. The first step in healing is naming the forces that have worked…
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3 Examples of Feminine courage in the Bible.
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A Tribute to Resilient and Feminine Women: Breaking Free and Thriving
Image by freepik on Freepik A Mother’s Influence Long after my marriage ended—when I was well past the grief stage and onto acceptance—my African mom playfully teased me. She said that my ex went out hunting for a girl and ended up picking an elephant. We both burst out laughing. Moments like these with my kind and gentle mother still linger in my mind. She has always been a wholesome parent, giving me enough space to express myself while applying just the right amount of firmness without ever forcing my hand. I don’t even think my mom ever spanked me. She scolded me when necessary, but that was about it.…
