Overcoming shame and fear series
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From Shame to Clarity: Overcoming the Fear of Single Motherhood
The fear of single motherhood grips us all including mothers who are married. We all know how vulnerable it makes us feel. But the Lord has said that he has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and of a sound mind. Many people often mistreat the poor and needy. Those who are emotionally, physically, mentally, or economically challenged are often the easiest targets. Vulnerability, sadly, puts a target on your back. Yet God calls us to alleviate their suffering. The story of Sodom and Gomorrah is not only about sexual pervasiveness, but also about neglecting the vulnerable. Today, in the rush of work and daily…
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Christian Single Mom Shame: From Shame to Strength
As a christian single mom, shame is something we all struggle with. Photo by Barbara Olsen Pexels. Have you ever been busy working, relaxing at home, or studying—when suddenly a flood of shameful thoughts hits you, tightening your chest? How do you usually handle that wave of emotions? Do you push them down, drowning yourself in more work or binge-watching a drama, or maybe self-soothe with food? I’ve been there countless times—when something deep inside surfaces, feeling like an intrusion, and facing it seems like the most daring and scariest thing you can do. Recently, while going through my Japanese studies plan, I experienced this very feeling. I paused, took…
