• Encouragement for the weary mother

    Walking in Faith Even When Others Don’t Uplift You

    We all know the drill when it comes to dealing with people—in the workplace, at home, or out in public. It’s a mixed bag of emotions: moments of joy and peace, cooperation, teamwork, alternating with strife, rejection, competitiveness, slander, jealousy, and more. Yet somehow, we manage to get through the day without pinning someone by the neck against the wall. Haha. Don’t you think there’s a God holding the reins against evil? He keeps things tidy, and we get glimpses of grace throughout our mostly messy human existence. Story-time: Preparing for the Contest Recently, I had an English speech contest for the kids I teach. I had coached them for…

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    From Striving to Rest: His Strength in Our Weakness

    Some mornings, I wake up feeling like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. I’ve spent so much time striving, pushing, and trying to prove I’ve got it all under control. But God’s Word reminds me that true strength isn’t found in what I can do—it’s found in surrender. His strength is made perfect in our weakness. Waking Up in His Presence This morning, I woke up well-rested, still basking in the worship atmosphere of the night before. Recently, I started rereading the Bible, holding on to God’s promise: “If you seek Me, you will find Me.” Scripture also reminds us that “we do not receive because we…

  • Blog,  Overcoming shame and fear series

    From Shame to Clarity: Overcoming the Fear of Single Motherhood

    The fear of single motherhood grips us all including mothers who are married. We all know how vulnerable it makes us feel. But the Lord has said that he has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and of a sound mind. Many people often mistreat the poor and needy. Those who are emotionally, physically, mentally, or economically challenged are often the easiest targets. Vulnerability, sadly, puts a target on your back. Yet God calls us to alleviate their suffering. The story of Sodom and Gomorrah is not only about sexual pervasiveness, but also about neglecting the vulnerable. Today, in the rush of work and daily…

  • Overcoming shame and fear series

    Christian Single Mom Shame: From Shame to Strength

    As a christian single mom, shame is something we all struggle with. Photo by Barbara Olsen Pexels. Have you ever been busy working, relaxing at home, or studying—when suddenly a flood of shameful thoughts hits you, tightening your chest? How do you usually handle that wave of emotions? Do you push them down, drowning yourself in more work or binge-watching a drama, or maybe self-soothe with food? I’ve been there countless times—when something deep inside surfaces, feeling like an intrusion, and facing it seems like the most daring and scariest thing you can do. Recently, while going through my Japanese studies plan, I experienced this very feeling. I paused, took…